Suddenly, it is a word that is too obvious, but this is a word of today.

 

"Thank you"

 

Words to express gratitude to others

 

It is a word that conveys happiness and gratitude to the other party, and the other party becomes happy by the word.

 

However, I realized that there is another role or usage of this word.

 

It means to build confidence in yourself.

 

This seems to be related to the idea of self-values.

 

The fact that a sense of value for yourself is determined by whether or not you have a healthy relationship with your parents, colleagues, others, or society.

If a person, myself, can influence and change my conduct by connecting with others, my sense of self-worth will increase and, as a result, confidence will be gained.

However, if your conduct does not affect or change others, your existence and value will be diluted in relation to others, and as a result, you will lose confidence.

The theory that.

 

I feel that this "self-values" and "thank you" are closely related.

• First of all, say "Thank you" from myself positively.The reason is, about anything.

 

• 　Then, it might be said, and it is likely to be puzzled, but there is no person who dislikes it outright, and returns some good reaction by the expression, the gesture, and the word.

 

• 　Then, there, a small, but firm positive stroke (exchange) occurs

 

• 　As a result, this "person of self" can influence the person firmly at that moment.

 

Does this lead to self-esteem, and confidence if you pull it?

It means.

 

For example, when you shop at a convenience store, you pay money, receive goods, and receive a change, and then do not leave silently.

"Thank you!I say to the clerk.

Then, you may feel a slightly different reaction to the clerk's words.

 

Work comes back from my subordinates.Firmly, say "thank you".

Then, the word of the subordinate becomes soft, and it becomes familiar.

 

It's all right for family, children, parents, wives and husbands.

"Thank you".

Then, there is still some positive reaction.

 

In each of those moments,

"Oh, now I'm firmly connected to people"

The sense is piled up one by one in my average.

 

Then, it might lead to the power to increase one's sense of value, and to give confidence as a result (confidence power)

 

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It may be a good idea to look back on the word "thank you" once again, and how much you are using every day.

And a little deeper

 

Thanks, increased confidence,

 

For this to be established,

 

　　Thank you.

 

that and

 

　　- React well to it

 

Both seem to be needed at the same time.

 

So, first of all, thank you,

 

There seems to be a case where it is not possible to say obediently.

 

In the workplace, there might be time even if it put it out to the voice especially.

 

In such a situation, it is firmly firmly in the mail or the note of work.

 

"Thank you" write

 

It might be good.

 

In addition, it may be good for subordinates to take the initiative from the people above and say thank you, even for their subordinates, to create an environment that is easy to say.

 

Apart from the reason and method, first of all, it seems good to try to run from the person who can.

 

Then, it reacts firmly next.

 

What would you do if you said thank you?

 

…

 

Something, i feel like feeling the embarrassment that suddenly itchy cheeks and back, here, let's react firmly.

 

• 　　Look in the eyes, yes, and nod
• 　　This is the one i'll return
• 　　return with a smile
• 　　Hug, shake hands
• 　　praise one's partner

 

And… What I noticed when I was writing so far,

 

"Thank you"

 

Rather than

 

　　"Respond firmly"

 

It seems to be unexpectedly difficult.

 

However, this, if you do not respond, but i will also lose the meaning of thank you, we may not say "thank you" accordingly because the way of this response is poor.

 

So let's make this our sour goal for the weekend.

 

Have a great weekend on Friday today.